Guests: Steve Bullington, Heather Fjelstad, & Grace Erickson

This panel featured three individuals who shared their workplace bereavement experiences and the impact that it has/had on their lives. Their stories highlighted the crucial need for compassionate support, beyond just policy, from employers during times of loss.

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Common Experiences and Challenges:
- All panelists served as caregivers for their loved ones before experiencing their loss.
- They struggled with balancing caregiving duties with professional responsibilities, often feeling isolated and under pressure.
- Many lacked guidance and support from their companies during their bereavement periods.

‍Supportive Responses:
- Having a supportive and understanding manager made a significant positive impact.
- Flexible leave policies, especially unlimited PTO, provided much-needed flexibility.
- Personal gestures from colleagues, such as attending funerals or expressing condolences, were deeply appreciated and memorable.
- Clear communication and proactive support from HR or leadership were beneficial, though often missing.

‍Inadequate Responses:
- Limited bereavement leave (e.g., three days) was insufficient and added stress.
- Lack of knowledge or support from managers and HR about leave policies created additional challenges.
- Employees often had to advocate for themselves, which was difficult during a time of grief.
- Returning to work without proper support or acknowledgment from colleagues made the transition harder.

‍Suggestions for Improvement:
- Managers should be knowledgeable about company leave policies and proactive in offering support.
- Companies should provide more extensive bereavement leave and consider flexible re-entry plans.
- Training for managers on how to handle bereavement situations with empathy and practical support is crucial.
- Open conversations about grief and caregiving should be encouraged to foster a supportive workplace culture.
- Companies should treat employees as humans, balancing organizational needs with compassionate support.

‍Final Messages:
- Grief is a universal experience; empathetic and flexible company policies can make a significant difference.
- Normalizing discussions about grief and caregiving at work can lead to better support systems and a more compassionate workplace environment.
- Proactive, human-centered approaches from management and leadership are essential in supporting grieving employees effectively.